Grinning with relief
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Grinning with relief
Hi friends,
I just experienced my first night alone in my own place without an intoxicated loved one screaming and cursing. Literally a first. (My loved one is in day 1- rehab.) My heart was so light and thrilled walking into a quiet home, knowing that absolutely whatever I do or think I won’t be treated disrespectfully. I have a basketful of emotional and practical issues to manage while I have the psychological space. That’s ok. A little window cracked open and I can feel freedom’s breeze. Sharing this sweet, sweet experience to help support anyone who is considering or about to get out of a situation where living with an A alcoholic is now intolerable. It’s a good idea to remove yourself if you can. Sharing this as an acknowledgment of my gratitude for all the support from everyone in this forum. Thank you!!
I just experienced my first night alone in my own place without an intoxicated loved one screaming and cursing. Literally a first. (My loved one is in day 1- rehab.) My heart was so light and thrilled walking into a quiet home, knowing that absolutely whatever I do or think I won’t be treated disrespectfully. I have a basketful of emotional and practical issues to manage while I have the psychological space. That’s ok. A little window cracked open and I can feel freedom’s breeze. Sharing this sweet, sweet experience to help support anyone who is considering or about to get out of a situation where living with an A alcoholic is now intolerable. It’s a good idea to remove yourself if you can. Sharing this as an acknowledgment of my gratitude for all the support from everyone in this forum. Thank you!!
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Originally Posted by Zukunft 
Hi friends,
I just experienced my first night alone in my own place without an intoxicated loved one screaming and cursing. Literally a first. (My loved one is in day 1- rehab.) My heart was so light and thrilled walking into a quiet home, knowing that absolutely whatever I do or think I won’t be treated disrespectfully. I have a basketful of emotional and practical issues to manage while I have the psychological space. That’s ok. A little window cracked open and I can feel freedom’s breeze. Sharing this sweet, sweet experience to help support anyone who is considering or about to get out of a situation where living with an A alcoholic is now intolerable. It’s a good idea to remove yourself if you can. Sharing this as an acknowledgment of my gratitude for all the support from everyone in this forum. Thank you!!
I just experienced my first night alone in my own place without an intoxicated loved one screaming and cursing. Literally a first. (My loved one is in day 1- rehab.) My heart was so light and thrilled walking into a quiet home, knowing that absolutely whatever I do or think I won’t be treated disrespectfully. I have a basketful of emotional and practical issues to manage while I have the psychological space. That’s ok. A little window cracked open and I can feel freedom’s breeze. Sharing this sweet, sweet experience to help support anyone who is considering or about to get out of a situation where living with an A alcoholic is now intolerable. It’s a good idea to remove yourself if you can. Sharing this as an acknowledgment of my gratitude for all the support from everyone in this forum. Thank you!!
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Originally Posted by CentralOhioDad
How's your freedom going?? I'm sure the silence is wonderful.
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Z, is there rehab planned for post-detox? There is a lot to be said for the notion of breaking bad news while your loved one is in a place where they are supported and monitored and have fewer real-life responsibilities to deal with.
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Thanks S, yes the rehab is also happening. I’ll definitely think about what you’ve mentioned. I think I should wait until he’s had a couple of sessions with the therapists. Meanwhile, I have time to think and it feels good! Thanks again!
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