Clover71

Good. I have one of these friends too. Her divorce from an alcoholic will be final this week. She doesn't judge me but is honest. We have that kind of friendship about everything really. Sometimes you hold back a thought because it's not the right time for someone to hear it, and sometimes you talk more rather than just listening.

My sister and my friend are just way too judge mental, and neither of them have walked in my shoes even though you would have thought they have done it a thousand times. Unlike you, at times I second guess what I know are good decisions after speaking with my sister. She also at times makes me feel like a bad mom. It's not something I need.