I'm powerless
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I loved reading your post. I feel that I am getting there, but not there yet. Still a work in progress. But I greatly look forward to the day when that dang heavy weight is totally off me. Its been a very heavy load to carry for far too long. Weary from it.
I loved reading your post. I feel that I am getting there, but not there yet. Still a work in progress. But I greatly look forward to the day when that dang heavy weight is totally off me. Its been a very heavy load to carry for far too long. Weary from it.
My experience was that once I finally let go - I mean, REALLY, fully, emotionally Got There with Letting Go - then my anxiety & fear about the lack of control was actually gone, popped like a balloon & the result was freeing.
It felt REALLY GOOD to not feel responsible for someone else's choices. I felt the literal weight of it shift off of my shoulders - it's Not Mine To Carry, it never was. I could choose to put it down & when I did I had all this space. Space for new thoughts, emotions, plans, ideas, awarenesses, self-love..... what started out as a heavy, negative burden transformed into love & possibilities instead.
It felt REALLY GOOD to not feel responsible for someone else's choices. I felt the literal weight of it shift off of my shoulders - it's Not Mine To Carry, it never was. I could choose to put it down & when I did I had all this space. Space for new thoughts, emotions, plans, ideas, awarenesses, self-love..... what started out as a heavy, negative burden transformed into love & possibilities instead.
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Nothing much would be different if I was living on my own with the children. The Holiday show was tonight. Husband couldn't be bothered to attend. I had a good time and went out for ice cream after. The children come to me. They see it. I am always the one doing. I'm so tired. Just done.
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