Court Thursday
 

I go to court Thursday for the financial settlement. Almost done! Any last minute advice?:c011:

No advice, just wishing you well and hoping this stage of things is over with SOON.

Wishing you the best, qtpi.

Q,
I am wishing you well on Thursday.

Anyway it turns out, you will be fine. I know this is not how you "planned" your life to be, after so many years with ah, but its your reality. Embrace the unknown future. You know that this will be easy peasy, compared to living with an addict.

Hugs my friend, this is the start of the new chapter for Qtpi!!

No advise, but I wish you calm and success friend!

Thanks!!!

No advice, but many wishes for a fair settlement and a peaceful outcome.

I hope everything went well for you yesterday!

well I wish I could say everything went smoothly. I guess being away from an alcoholic for over 16 months- you forget what they are like.

In court Thursday, I was promised immediate access to a specific sum of money so I could put a downpayment on a house. XAH has been living in our mortgage free house the whole time.

So I went to get the money today and he had already removed it. So I can't get it. I called my lawyer but its Saturday- so I have to wait until Monday.

So disappointed- how could I have lived with such a dishonest, unethical loser for so long?

I am sooo glad I am out of the marriage! He is pond scum. I apologize for using harsh words- but I have kept my integrity through this process and can hold my head high.

Well, that stinks.
Sic your attorney on him.

He is just trying to get me to spend more in attorney's fees maybe. What a big baby!

Wish I could have him arrested for contempt of court- wait- maybe I can!

qtpi - I am happy to hear about the court awarding you money for a home and I am disgusted that your ex immediately went and hid it. He actually could be help in contempt of court....best of luck to you!

Irk Qtpi, I do hope there is something the court can do - irk!

qtpi, I am sorry that you have to wait until Monday, but I think your ex will be on the receiving end of some legal grief then if he doesn't knock it off!

Hang in there!!

I'm sorry.

We should never be shocked by stunts that our active addicts do. They have no brain cells left. Take the high road and sick the attorneys on him, don't engage.

Let us know what happens..

Well at the very least, petition the court to have him pay your attorney fee's due to HIS antics!!

Hope today went well Qtpi!

All the best Qtpi.

Just wondering what happened - did you get your money?