Here comes the anger
Here comes the anger
Well....he's onto the anger stage. He asked me point blank if I made up my mind. I said yes, I'm leaving. Now, he's angry and saying things like "I didn't do anything to you." I found myself starting to argue back but stopped. The threats saying he'll never talk to me again. There's no point in talking because I'm leaving him. It could get worse, but I'm going today to drop off the deposit and get the lease signed...if he's gets really bad, I'll be able to move sooner.
Good thoughts for me, please?
Good thoughts for me, please?
Well....he's onto the anger stage. He asked me point blank if I made up my mind. I said yes, I'm leaving. Now, he's angry and saying things like "I didn't do anything to you."
I think you are doing the only healthy thing you can do at this point for yourself and your children. Keep taking the right next step and your life will be so much different and better.
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So proud of you becki!!! Yea!!!
It's scary but you have been living "alone" for a long time anyway. You haven't heard the last from him, I am sure. Mind your side of the street, and take care of you. He is grown man and will be ok.
It's scary but you have been living "alone" for a long time anyway. You haven't heard the last from him, I am sure. Mind your side of the street, and take care of you. He is grown man and will be ok.
I remember this feeling, the release I felt when I left my XAH. When the anger and abuse were able to be put behind me at least in the physical sense. But, I still took the pain and the past with me and I still needed healing, and I still do.
Please continue to reach out to others, keep working on you, and keep putting you first. Take lots of deep breaths and be patient with yourself. Sending you lots of positive vibes and healing thoughts.
Please continue to reach out to others, keep working on you, and keep putting you first. Take lots of deep breaths and be patient with yourself. Sending you lots of positive vibes and healing thoughts.
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