How to handle trespassing
we aren't triggered by the QUALITY of his recovery - we were however concerned for YOU with someone breaking into your shed/entering your house uninvited, taking stuff and as the title you gave this thread TRESPASSING. i don't care if he has 22 years worth of coins, the BEHAVIOR is out of line. and you were trying to turn this back IN to a recovery thing. the two are separate.
you are the only one worried about HIS recovery and how HE should be doing it. we were just trying to give you ideas to keep him off your lawn.
he IS your EX tho right?
you are the only one worried about HIS recovery and how HE should be doing it. we were just trying to give you ideas to keep him off your lawn.
he IS your EX tho right?
I honestly don't have any input on the quality or quantity of your qualifier's recovery other than to say that breaking into a home and stealing from someone is not a part of it. I don't think anyone would debate that.
This is a very good discussion regarding what is tolerable behavior from anyone, recovering or not.
And definitely it's not acceptable to be critical of where you think another person may be according to their qualifier. I have learned through YEARS of experience that the only thing that matters is where YOU are yourself.
The people of this forum are able to discuss things, most of the time in a productive manner. As it's always been said, take what helps, leave the rest. As Ann said, the posts should always remain respectful.
This is a very good discussion regarding what is tolerable behavior from anyone, recovering or not.
And definitely it's not acceptable to be critical of where you think another person may be according to their qualifier. I have learned through YEARS of experience that the only thing that matters is where YOU are yourself.
The people of this forum are able to discuss things, most of the time in a productive manner. As it's always been said, take what helps, leave the rest. As Ann said, the posts should always remain respectful.
Enough people
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