Helped a friend yesterday....
Helped a friend yesterday....
Without going into too much detail as I am going to recommend this site to this friend, an old friend of mine was drinking yesterday, and it's a serious situation.
I ended up helping and it brought back ALOT of bad memories for me. Not triggered by the person...but the smell of alcohol. I had a hard time standing close b/c the smell is something I hated so much. I did not realize it would trigger me so much....
It's amazing how smells can take you right back to certain places in your life. Just pondering I guess.
I ended up helping and it brought back ALOT of bad memories for me. Not triggered by the person...but the smell of alcohol. I had a hard time standing close b/c the smell is something I hated so much. I did not realize it would trigger me so much....
It's amazing how smells can take you right back to certain places in your life. Just pondering I guess.
It's the smell that gets me too. It's like a punch in the gut when I smell "that" smell on an alcoholic. Can be a complete stranger, but still my anxiety FLARES... luckily I now have the tools to reign that reaction back in, but boy-oh-boy do I know what you mean!.... olfactory ptsd...
Yes, the pop top sound did it for me for a long time as well. I did not even know the smell bothers me anymore, but apparently so. It's not even just a one drink smell, it's the smell of been drinking for hours, hard stuff....ugh...
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I second what you are saying. I call it my PTSD.
I see it, smell it, hear it, these all bring back awful feelings for me. I struggle going to a bar and watching people drink. Hopefully one day I will be like Maudcat and it won't affect me. Ugh!!
I see it, smell it, hear it, these all bring back awful feelings for me. I struggle going to a bar and watching people drink. Hopefully one day I will be like Maudcat and it won't affect me. Ugh!!
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