Recovered Spouse Cheated and Left Me
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Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: South Jersey
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That's a pretty amazing crystal ball you've got, there.
Come on, you're envisioning her entire future based on a few weeks' events. This is sheer speculation--not only about what her future holds, but about what led her to want out of the marriage.
What about YOU? Have you considered any therapy, yourself, to help you process this whole situation so you can heal and move on with your life? I mentioned leaving my first husband. He had a VERY difficult time accepting my decision--he was (understandably) very hurt and felt very betrayed. He was in AA, and what he did was to double down on his work with his sponsor, and he sought therapy to help him. Several months later, he met a lovely woman to whom he is still happily married. That was over twenty years ago. He's still sober, he's still happy, and we remain good friends.
Think about it--not that you have to remain friends, but getting some help to deal with the hurt.
Come on, you're envisioning her entire future based on a few weeks' events. This is sheer speculation--not only about what her future holds, but about what led her to want out of the marriage.
What about YOU? Have you considered any therapy, yourself, to help you process this whole situation so you can heal and move on with your life? I mentioned leaving my first husband. He had a VERY difficult time accepting my decision--he was (understandably) very hurt and felt very betrayed. He was in AA, and what he did was to double down on his work with his sponsor, and he sought therapy to help him. Several months later, he met a lovely woman to whom he is still happily married. That was over twenty years ago. He's still sober, he's still happy, and we remain good friends.
Think about it--not that you have to remain friends, but getting some help to deal with the hurt.
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