The ride pt 2... posting here instead of screaming at him
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I will try to find an agency to call LexieCat, thanks. I was thinking that if worst came to worst, I could call child services and ask them for help having him removed from the house so I can maybe sidestep the law and police and red tape for now.
He just found out that he is $50 short of the money to take an uber, it's 175. He has a check for $50 and he asked me to cash it out because it won't clear by 2am. He's so passed right now, I told him I would cash it out if he called his mom and ex wife to let them know he relapsed so they can decide whether or not they will let him see his son. I kind of did it just to mess with him, silly, I know. But it make me smile for the first time today watching him look defeated.
He just found out that he is $50 short of the money to take an uber, it's 175. He has a check for $50 and he asked me to cash it out because it won't clear by 2am. He's so passed right now, I told him I would cash it out if he called his mom and ex wife to let them know he relapsed so they can decide whether or not they will let him see his son. I kind of did it just to mess with him, silly, I know. But it make me smile for the first time today watching him look defeated.
From there get things squared away with the advocates and possibly a lawyer so hopefully you can get yourself out of this mess.
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Cheering for you - you sound amazing in a bat$h!t crazy situation.
I understand you wanting him to take a breathylizer - it's tough when you have someone you love and maybe used to respect telling you you are crazy for thinking they are drinking. However I'm with Lexie - part of our issues are not trusting our own gut. Yours is correct. Tried and true. You can listen to it now. It is valid!
Hang in there - you are doing all the right things!
I understand you wanting him to take a breathylizer - it's tough when you have someone you love and maybe used to respect telling you you are crazy for thinking they are drinking. However I'm with Lexie - part of our issues are not trusting our own gut. Yours is correct. Tried and true. You can listen to it now. It is valid!
Hang in there - you are doing all the right things!
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