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Originally Posted by qtpi 
Thank you for this thread. I mentioned once to STBXAH that friends family and coworkers seemed to like me as I am just fine and don't complain about me the way he did. His answer; " They don't have to live with you." Well I don't have to live with him anymore!
Moved out six months ago- feeling great and looking great- lost weight to a very healthy attractive size. bought a new wardrobe- My old clothes in addition to being too big, were drab and baggy. I can't believe my tastes have changed so much!
There are some other current posts that have given me pause to think about resentments- instead of holding on to resentments, I am reading the signs. He was a bully and I deserve better. I deserve to be happy and to only be with people who treat me well. I can say NO loud and clear now. There is so much more to life.
Moved out six months ago- feeling great and looking great- lost weight to a very healthy attractive size. bought a new wardrobe- My old clothes in addition to being too big, were drab and baggy. I can't believe my tastes have changed so much!
There are some other current posts that have given me pause to think about resentments- instead of holding on to resentments, I am reading the signs. He was a bully and I deserve better. I deserve to be happy and to only be with people who treat me well. I can say NO loud and clear now. There is so much more to life.
I need to read the signs, notice them for what they are and quit giving into guilt. My guilt if we stay and how this is effecting the kids, far outweighs any guilt I should have towards a grown man treating us this way.
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