I see improvement in myself:)
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I see improvement in myself:)
Hi everyone!
So we are visiting at grandmas (aka "supervised visitation), myself and DS
It has been awfully peaceful - and most importantly, I am really, really doing well with not giving advice/trying to fix things
1) XAHs laptop died while he and DS were doing internet research - I left XAH to rant and rave and voila - computer "fixed itself"
2) XAH whined and moaned about "having to live with his brother and not having his own place". Instead my usual advice to "work more than 16 hours per week", I nodded and said yea sure I understand (not really but I totally faked it
I say, things are getting much easier even his whining about his current situation (which he has caused) is not getting to me
So we are visiting at grandmas (aka "supervised visitation), myself and DS
It has been awfully peaceful - and most importantly, I am really, really doing well with not giving advice/trying to fix things
1) XAHs laptop died while he and DS were doing internet research - I left XAH to rant and rave and voila - computer "fixed itself"
2) XAH whined and moaned about "having to live with his brother and not having his own place". Instead my usual advice to "work more than 16 hours per week", I nodded and said yea sure I understand (not really but I totally faked it
I say, things are getting much easier
even his whining about his current situation (which he has caused) is not getting to me 
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