Always the Victim
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Always the Victim
So, AW has been telling some close friends about her getting fired - but the story doesn't seem to include her part in the whole affair - she plays it as being just a victim. I want to take these people aside and say, "Wanna hear the WHOLE story?" But it will all come out in time once the divorce is initiated.
Side note: her former boss (with whom she had the emotional affair) got fired on Friday.
It's like a soap opera in my household!! "Days of our (COD) Lives!!!
Whoopee!
Side note: her former boss (with whom she had the emotional affair) got fired on Friday.
It's like a soap opera in my household!! "Days of our (COD) Lives!!!
Whoopee!
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Yikes. Hope things are moving along with the lawyer?
I would not be surprised now that her boss is unemployed and has too much free time (along with a wounded ego) if the pseudo-affair doesn't start up again. So if she suddenly starts guarding her phone and going on long, vague "job interviews"...she may end up giving you more evidence for gaining full custody.
Good luck...some day this will all be behind you.
I would not be surprised now that her boss is unemployed and has too much free time (along with a wounded ego) if the pseudo-affair doesn't start up again. So if she suddenly starts guarding her phone and going on long, vague "job interviews"...she may end up giving you more evidence for gaining full custody.
Good luck...some day this will all be behind you.
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Originally Posted by CentralOhioDad 
It's like a soap opera in my household!! "Days of our (COD) Lives!!!
Whoopee!
the good thing is
like sands through the hourglass, the circus will eventually stop,too.
until then, crank it up and dance!!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8LQftYK2n8o
I highly advise NOT playing this when shes around tho.
unless ya want a new act to start performing.
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That made me laugh, tomsteve!! But, isn't this what I was looking for??
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z-Zgtm-g4Co
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z-Zgtm-g4Co
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He got fired from his previous job for sexual harassment of an intern. And yes, he does drink, and drinks a bunch. He and AW would send each other pix of their wine glasses at night so they could "have drinks together" (her words). And yet, she denies being involved?!?!?!?
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Not surprising-this is how they get through life-victim stories. Funny that they never tell the whole truth or anything remotely close to it. They leave out critical information just to make themselves look like the one that is being victimized. Don't worry about explaining to anyone-they'll see one day. You just worry about you and kiddo!
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You guys are killing me with the life theme songs.
I'm adding this to your future playlist...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RTiyLuZOs1A
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In the end, she will be the only person believing her own stories. It is very sad, when you think about it. There is a phase when kids start making up stories, and some of them tend to be really impressive, and of course, everyone else knows that the story is not true, but the kid keeps lying and adding on to the story.
It is really sad when an adult slips back into the kiddy lying phase.
It is really sad when an adult slips back into the kiddy lying phase.
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Originally Posted by firebolt
You guys are killing me with the life theme songs.
I'm adding this to your future playlist...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RTiyLuZOs1A
this one still has me laughin
https://youtu.be/rxtd5Hj0yxo
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Originally Posted by CentralOhioDad
He got fired from his previous job for sexual harassment of an intern. And yes, he does drink, and drinks a bunch. He and AW would send each other pix of their wine glasses at night so they could "have drinks together" (her words). And yet, she denies being involved?!?!?!?
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Originally Posted by healthyagain
In the end, she will be the only person believing her own stories. It is very sad, when you think about it. There is a phase when kids start making up stories, and some of them tend to be really impressive, and of course, everyone else knows that the story is not true, but the kid keeps lying and adding on to the story.
It is really sad when an adult slips back into the kiddy lying phase.
It is really sad when an adult slips back into the kiddy lying phase.
The saddest thing is that alcoholics can lose objectivity to the point that they cannot even see how ludicrous the stories they tell actually are.
They honestly think that everyone believes them, when in reality their friends are sick of hearing stories that are so obviously false.
My ex's best friend told me a while back that she was dreading meeting up with my ex, because her best friend said "she will just tell me a bunch of stories about you that are clearly not true".
Bear in mind that these are my ex's two closest female friends.
Denial is such a sad thing.
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Originally Posted by CentralOhioDad
she plays it as being just a victim. I want to take these people aside and say, "Wanna hear the WHOLE story?"
So I told my ex's best friend the whole story. She "got it" immediately.
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And I forgot to throw this is earlier - she found (snooped) thru a box I had brought home from work when I lost my last job. In there was a Thank You note from a girl with whom I worked, thanking me for the wedding gift that a GROUP of us gave her.
AW accused me of chasing after this girl and having an affair!! All over a damn Thank You note!!!! And then she thinks that having 'drinks together' over Facebook messenger with her boss is "just being friends".
The insanity of it all.
AW accused me of chasing after this girl and having an affair!! All over a damn Thank You note!!!! And then she thinks that having 'drinks together' over Facebook messenger with her boss is "just being friends".
The insanity of it all.
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