Its so hard because I cant understand
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good advice
Originally Posted by AnvilheadII 
i think it is important to take "drinking" out of any conversations you have with him. keep it to the business. limit contact as much as possible.
you will NEVER find the right combination of WORDS that get thru to him. he doesn't want to hear it. he is FINE. his drinking is not a problem for HIM< only for you. and as an adult he is entitled to drink til he pukes out his eyeballs.
we often go the source of our pain and expect them to FIX our pain. hardware store for bread. your healing must come from elsewhere.
you will NEVER find the right combination of WORDS that get thru to him. he doesn't want to hear it. he is FINE. his drinking is not a problem for HIM< only for you. and as an adult he is entitled to drink til he pukes out his eyeballs.
we often go the source of our pain and expect them to FIX our pain. hardware store for bread. your healing must come from elsewhere.
You know what happens when the drinking is mentioned. It never ends good. If you do have to have contact with him for business purposes, avoid the drinking topic. Just try it--if it still leads to an argument you can always mention it again.
Keep fighting and prayers <3
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