Calling all alcoholic decoders!
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You are to blame for everything and he had nothing to do with any of it.
He's still blaming so I guess not much has changed.
He's still blaming so I guess not much has changed.
Originally Posted by Forourgirls 
Y'all that know my story with my ex....I got a lovely gem tonight that I thought I would pass on and get your take on...my ex sent me a message out of the blue stating "it's your heart to blame". 
Hmmm, it's my hearts fault he hasn't seen his own flesh and blood? It's my hearts fault he continues to drink and blame me? Hmmm, I smell projection and a load of BS. (Yes-I know I'm not to blame and that he's full of s**t and just gurgling alcoholic mumbo jumbo that doesn't make sense at all-it's what he's done for years). I read his message and asked my friend to pray for him. So we did bc I truly always have wanted the best for him.
Y'all that know my story, thoughts?
Hmmm, it's my hearts fault he hasn't seen his own flesh and blood? It's my hearts fault he continues to drink and blame me? Hmmm, I smell projection and a load of BS. (Yes-I know I'm not to blame and that he's full of s**t and just gurgling alcoholic mumbo jumbo that doesn't make sense at all-it's what he's done for years). I read his message and asked my friend to pray for him. So we did bc I truly always have wanted the best for him.
Y'all that know my story, thoughts?
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Translation:
"I am right, you are wrong!"
Possible alternative:
"I'm writing you a deep and insightful message but I'm so drunk I can't remember what I wanted to say, but hey, you're a mind reader so you should know. I mean, it's pretty clear what I meant to say even though I don't remember it myself, and if you don't get it you must not be very bright".
"I am right, you are wrong!"
Possible alternative:
"I'm writing you a deep and insightful message but I'm so drunk I can't remember what I wanted to say, but hey, you're a mind reader so you should know. I mean, it's pretty clear what I meant to say even though I don't remember it myself, and if you don't get it you must not be very bright".
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Originally Posted by Bekindalways
So if the mortal enemy of addiction is accountability, what is the mortal enemy of codependency?
Learning awareness of where my responsibility ends and where everyone elses starts.
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