And it's done!!!!!
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And it's done!!!!!
Sorry to make another thread, but I have had one last debt with my X on it, and it was a big one. I just got confirmation today, it is PAID IN FULL!!!!!!
I cannot even say how excited I am about this. Dealing with him sends my anxiety right through the roof, and they have put it to me on this. I am so so so happy!!!!!!!! That was our last financial tie.
Now it's just child support, which will always be owed to me, not from me. And of course I will have to deal with him until our children are adults regarding parenting issues, but the financial ties are OVER!
Hip Hip Horray!
I cannot even say how excited I am about this. Dealing with him sends my anxiety right through the roof, and they have put it to me on this. I am so so so happy!!!!!!!! That was our last financial tie.
Now it's just child support, which will always be owed to me, not from me. And of course I will have to deal with him until our children are adults regarding parenting issues, but the financial ties are OVER!
Hip Hip Horray!
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hopeful.....I can understand your relief!
I hope that you can keep your contact with him as sterile and brief as is humanly possible.....and, concerning child issues, only......
I don't see any reason that you shoul ever have to entertain communications from her!!
since she. obviously, tries to carry his water--this should take some of the wind out of her sails.....and, it doesn't sound like he has very much motivation in that department......
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I hope that you can keep your contact with him as sterile and brief as is humanly possible.....and, concerning child issues, only......
I don't see any reason that you shoul ever have to entertain communications from her!!
since she. obviously, tries to carry his water--this should take some of the wind out of her sails.....and, it doesn't sound like he has very much motivation in that department......
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Yes Dandy...that is one of the things I have been looking forward to, is that I really should not have to speak to her at all if I don't want to! Yay!
I have already sent proof the commitments are paid off. I have let them know once I get the actual payoff letters I will email a copy of those, and done!
I have already sent proof the commitments are paid off. I have let them know once I get the actual payoff letters I will email a copy of those, and done!
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Congratulations!!!
Referring back to this weekend, though...if anything, this is yet another reason not to be too far away? It's another tie that's been cut and he no longer needs your cooperation for this obligation. Worrisome...
Referring back to this weekend, though...if anything, this is yet another reason not to be too far away? It's another tie that's been cut and he no longer needs your cooperation for this obligation. Worrisome...
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