Flavia2

The kids won't see him or answer his text messages. I told him I'm not responsible for his relationship with them.

They are all old enough that they're allowed to decide whether or not to see him.

It makes me sad but I'm staying away from it.

Of course, he blames me.

Oh well. Back to work tomorrow.

Seren

Well, he can make this better if HE tries. But then, that would mean admitting he is responsible for the situation. And, it doesn't sound like that will happen any time soon.

Sorry you are getting flack over all of it, but remember that it is not your fault!

Liveitwell

Friend-not surprised. I agree with Seren-he would have to admit this is his fault and responsibility. He ain't going to do that. (I too have been blamed-it's just what they do). Peace and hugs. Have a great day!

Praying

Been there too...not your fault. In my case he eventually stopped blaming me, don't know if he got bored or what. He seems to be making small attempts to connect with them three years later. Who knows if that will stick, but NOT MY PROBLEM!

Yours either, even though it stinks to be there. Keep on doing what you're doing!

Flavia2

Thank you, everyone!

It means so much to have this board -- people who've been through it and really understand.