Originally Posted by Hawkeye13

Sorry you're struggling chloe, but here's two ideas to think over:
1. Could you afford to support a grown man for the rest of his adult life,
especially as his addiction progressed and he required more medical attention
and the dementia began to really show up with all the physical
and emotional issues attendant with that?
2. I used to be a "fun" drunk, than an emotional drunk, and was turning
in the the mean, verbally abusive drunk by the time I stopped.
Don't assume he will stay at the silly stage.
Didn't you wake up in the middle of the night with him ranting, standing
in your bedroom?
That doesn't sound "silly" to me.

Be glad you're free and stick to the No Contact this time