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Old 01-25-2016, 11:17 AM
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I came here instead of contacting AH.......

we are snowed in here on the East Coast and he kindly dropped off something I needed at the store yesterday. He looked like hell - I can tell he is drinking again- bloated a little- complaining - body hurts - back hurts - the usual negativity he does when he is drinking. I did not engage but I told him he looked like hell - today I feel like checking on him- like telling him I am worried about him- but I came here instead - he chooses to not work - he chooses to live with his 80 year old parents - he chooses to not take care of himself - he chooses to drink. God it makes me sad but his choices . I chose to live and to be happy and hopeful ~
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Old 01-25-2016, 11:40 AM
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good for you!!! i suspect that "maybe" because he did something "nice" that also got you all fired up. remember the crumbs, remember the intermittent chicken!!!!

so are you still snowed in, or can you tunnel to the street yet?
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Old 01-25-2016, 12:19 PM
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Good for you, susie! We are HERE FOR YOU!!
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Old 01-25-2016, 12:40 PM
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Great job!!!
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Old 01-25-2016, 12:55 PM
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Great choice! You are so strong. Big hugs to you ♡♡
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Old 01-25-2016, 02:13 PM
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I was able to get out today - the roads are still miserable but I did it! I am proud - I had to dig my car out some ! That intermittent chicken thing is real - what the heck and the crumbs.......Oh my - I have much much more work to do but am trying to stay proud of myself. I can do this............ Thanks so much for being so awesome - it means the world.....
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