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Old 11-10-2015, 02:46 PM
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Almost funny

It's been a while since I posted, or even read many posts. But, I have been doing well, and haven't had too much interaction with my AXH. However, much of my time has been spent with my mother who had to go into Home Hospice Care recently, and then she ultimately passed yesterday morning. Naturally, AXH expressed his condolences and offered to help if he could. I gracefully declined and thanked him for reaching out.

So I hear from my former BIL and his wife that AXH has been contacting old friends and family that now live near him and has passed himself off as still being married. Also telling anyone that will sit still that he is the only one that ever cared for our DD. Don't know what he is thinking, and don't really care to dig too deeply either. Just glad that I am out...
I guess the crazy will continue to live on.
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Old 11-10-2015, 02:53 PM
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So sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. My condolences. I'm glad you had an opportunity to spend time with her before she passed.
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So sorry to hear about your mom. I'm sure it helped that you were able to spend so much time with her.

No, the crazy never does seem to end, does it? At least as long as they're still drinking. Still, glad he was able to summon the kindness to express his condolences and make the gesture of offering to help. As for the rest, it's just that, craziness, pride and ego. Let it go. Anyone who matters knows the truth.

Hugs, hope you will be able to stick around a little more once everything gets more settled.
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Old 11-10-2015, 03:40 PM
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I'm so sorry about your mom. (((YURT)))

Look at you - so strong and cool through it all. I'm in awe.
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My deepest condolences. I am glad you spent your time with your mother and can laugh at your X's behavior.

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So sorry to hear about your mom, but good for you for not buying into the crazy. (((((Hugs)))))
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I am so sorry about your Mom!!

Hugs my friend!!
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I'm sorry to hear about your mom, Yurt, peace to you and yours.
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I'm so sorry to hear about your mother, Yurt. I'll keep you all in my thoughts.
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Yurt-very sorry to hear about your mom. Peace to you, friend.
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Old 11-10-2015, 09:12 PM
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So very sorry about your mom, Yurt. And, yes, the crazy continues to live on and we do not have to live in it anymore. Let me know if you make it down to Wickenburg or Phoenix any time soon, I'll be around and would love to get together.
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I'm so sorry for your mom's passing. Wishing you peace and continued strength.
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I've never heard of an ex telling people that, a new one for sure.

Sorry you lost your Mom (hugs) to you.
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Yurt...I am so very very sorry for your loss. To have him add stress, or try to, is amazing. What a mess he is.

You are in my prayers my friend....
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So sorry for the loss of your mother. Prayers to you and your family.

I've come to see that crazy always gets revealed in time. I don't need to get involved with that reveal it happens on its own. And the ones that don't see it, it's usually because they are riding that train along with crazy.
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Yurt, it's good to "see" you again. My sympathy on the loss of your mother.
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