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cherra 06-24-2015 08:29 PM

An Unlikely Aniversary
 
It was a year ago on June 22nd that myAH fired that gun into the ceiling that set us on the road to where we are now. June 25 will be our 38th and last anniversary and it won't be celebrated. The divorce should be final soon. We actually are being decent to each other for the sake of the kids. I have moved into my moms house behind our house. Our son is in the process of trying to buy our house and if that works out, I will be thrilled to be a backyard Grandma like my mom was to our kids. Tonight he is in the hospital. He's having hallucinations. Hopefully this may be a wake-up call for him. I certainly hope so for the kids sake. But our marriage is over. There's no going back. I'll be glad when it's over and done. It's been a hard year but we are survivors!

biminiblue 06-24-2015 08:40 PM

((cherra)) :hug:

Thanks for the update.

FeelingGreat 06-24-2015 08:41 PM

cherra, what a hopeful and lovely update. I hope the sale goes through and you do get to be a backyard grandma because it would be ideal for everyone.
My DIL is due in a week and I think I'll just pitch a tent in their backyard :)

Refiner 06-24-2015 09:10 PM

So cool, Cherra. Congratulations!

redatlanta 06-25-2015 03:14 AM

Congrats so glad you got out of coo coo land!

INgal 06-25-2015 06:24 AM

Good luck to you and have a wonderful journey!

hopeful4 06-25-2015 07:18 AM

Oh Cherra...I remember when that happened! How awful.

You are right, you are survivors, and that is a wonderful thing! I hope the house works out and that you get to be the backyard grandma you want to be!!

Many hugs to you!

firebolt 06-25-2015 09:10 AM

I'm sorry you went through all that. I hope you have an amazing, peaceful anniversary today where you and your kids are the centers of attention and love. Congratulations on being out of the whole mess.


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