Timetoheal12

I recieved a phone call of one of my best friends (who's a male).
He told me that this girl (let's call her "Mary") is now dating exabf.
He said he wanted me to know before she told me, since, as he said, she's been acting a little cynical lately.

4 months ago, when she found out that exabf and I were dating again she told me:

"Are you sure? He's a manwhore and you know it..."

Yet she's dating him now.
And I really, really used to believe she was my friend.


Ugh.

Flavia2

I'm so sorry. Now you know- she's not your friend and he really IS a MH.

Hope you find peace.

Timetoheal12

Flavia, thank you.
I guess it's better to hear all these things now.
Tbh they don't affect me as they used to.
I want to see him for who he is and be happy with the fact that he is no longer in my life.

Flavia2

Yes, it is very hurtful and difficult but also a blessing at the same time. Because you really don't need a "friend" like that, and you certainly deserve a loyal, loving boyfriend.

Maybe they were meant for one another.

Timetoheal12

In all honesty, I feel hurt because of her.
This is his normal behavior.
Everytime we broke up he would rapidly hook up with a friend of mine...
Really, this has happened too many times before...
And they were usually friends who were totally OK with his drinking.

So that is normal on him.

I just didn't expected my "friend" to do that.

But you're right.... They are more compatible than we (he and I= could ever be.

totfit

Well, better off someone else's manwhore than yours.

iGirl66

She has her life lessons to learn too. Maybe when (not if) he treats her like crap too it will be her bottom and she will start the process of healing that she obviously needs.

LexieCat

Friends sometimes let us down. Sometimes we have to let friends go, just as sometimes we need to end other relationships. It hurts, but it's part of life.

Hugs,

Timetoheal12

I cannot lie.
I do feel sad that he is with someone else.
She drinks a lot too.

Ahh, dunno.

LexieCat

So they are a match made it--I won't say heaven. Not your problem what they do. Remember, you're BROKEN UP. It's OVER. He has a right to be with someone else.

If you want to spare yourself a lot of grief, cut off contact with both of these two, and inform any mutual friends you may have that you do NOT want reports or updates about what is going on with either one of them.

fluffyflea

She doesn't sound like a friend to me.

Let her go.

Timetoheal12

Thank you very much everyone.
Yep. I shouldn't care about these people.
All I have ahead is my career and many more good things...

I'll try to deal with my feelings in a more optimistic way...
Thanks for being there!

Angie247

I'm so sorry that happened but it's good that you know now.

Timetoheal12

Thank you Angie, I guess it truly is.

Is the cat on the picture yours?

Angie247

Yes, it is. That's Elvis and he will be 3 months old on the 10th. Same birthday as Chuck Norris, lol.

Timetoheal12

Hahaah, that's cute! I love cats, but I can't have one since a family member is allergic...