SuzyMarie

I know it has already been stated, but I'd like to reiterate that probably all you can do is work on your own communication skills and not have any expectations out of your boyfriend at all. I know that one of the times my ex and I did try counseling (there'd been a few!), his picking up again changed everything and our therapist was reluctant to continue with both of us because as she said, 'the playing ground changed'. The main issue became his addiction and there is no effective communicating with someone who is in active addiction. He stopped going anyway and I did continue for a while after. Just my 2 cents. My thoughts are with you.