AEXBF Still getting in my head....
 

Hi everyone-

Been a few weeks since I came on here, but I've been doing really well. Haven't heard from my AEXBF and have been even going on dates with new people.

Today my best friend told me that my AEXBF sent her a video Saturday of him drinking and driving his car and singing our song. What is the point of him doing this? Because she would tell me? Because now I'll go back into my worrying fit? I wish she would have never told me...

I feel the urge to call his parents, to call his brother, but it IS not my problem anymore, and actually never was.

Some back up would be lovely, I don't want to go backward!!!

The problem isn't what he did, it's more what your friend did. I'd tell your friend that you don't want to hear ANYTHING about him, and that if she keeps giving you "reports" you will have to stop talking to her. And then do it.

His family is not your concern. Stay out of it. Your instincts are right.

Thanks Lexie- I figured... and yes I told her absolutely no more reports!!!

I agree with Lexie...

He'll continue until he doesn't. Proud of ya for not reacting!

Of course that's why he did that, so don't you do anything.

He's EX remember?