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shelton40 01-28-2015 07:27 PM

Bummer
 
So my AH didnt come to church like he said he would...cancelled last minute. Claims a couple days ago its killing him to not see us. Whatever..
So drove by house...strange van in driveway. Go into garage...its stinks like pot...he doesnt even get up. I asked him why he didnt come tonight(its been amonth of not seeing us) and his response" its not right you control everything."
I left.
Unbelievable...wish I never went there. Strane laundry basket with nicely folded clothes.
Its maddening.

CodeJob 01-29-2015 05:01 AM

Good morning Shelton.

His actions. Listen to what he does as opposed to what he says. He is the one who needs a remedial course in living a good clean life. Keep working on you and your kids.

E-hugs!

shelton40 01-29-2015 05:03 AM

I agree...I just have to not give into that part of me that wants to know what he is REALLY doing. Ive wondered that for years. Move on and let go.


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