Originally Posted by shelton40
My ADH is being so nice we are seperating. He said if I was an alcoholic could I go 6 weeks without drinking? So I dont think its a big deal if I have a couple of drinks at night before I go to bed?? Normally I would have been mad. But I calmly responded of course. Its not wrong for you. But it is for me. I dont have to live your way. Whats right for you is not right for me. He then said I have a bottle of Captain in the fridge and I havent touched it. I automatically asked why? He said because YOU werent talking to me. I am so tired of the excuses. The lies. The verbal and mental abuse from someone who is sick but knows the choices to get well and is fully capable. So I am moving out. There is a big beautiful world out tgere...
You are soooo right! I was always being told I'm "too sensitive", "you're giving me a headache", "quit playing the victim for situations you create for yourself", etc.
Those words resonate in my mind.....which helps me realize I'm not crazy or unreasonable. I simply believe I deserve better. Soooo sorry I hurt my AC ego.....but he won't break my spirit!