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Brindie 11-12-2014 10:32 AM

Basic recovery technique - facing a Christmas party for the first time
 
To celebrate my nearly one year of recovery after leaving my STBERAH, I have just taken a huge - for me - step. I accepted an invitation to our office Christmas party in two weeks time, and bought a new party dress at 50% discount which arrived by mail today. RAH was so jealous, I always refused invitations to any work social events - except last year, when I promised to get a cab home with a girlfriend before 9pm. I never went to anything where partners were invited, except to his work parties, where he usually left me all evening on my own. I was always so ashamed of his drinking behaviour. So this year, best foot forward! No-one waiting up hammered at home checking the time, no-one checking out I'm looking 'modest' before I go out. So ladies, in my 60th year I have bought a beautiful deep ruby, figure hugging, ruched (fake) silk, just above the knee, sleeveless party dress! It fits like a dream, and with my renewed confidence, I am really looking forward to a party for the first time in nearly 20 years. That's recovery!:a122:

amy55 11-12-2014 10:44 AM

Wow, I have tears of joy in my eyes right now for you. That dress sounds stunning, and you will make it even better. Congrats on that big step.

((((((((((hugs)))))))))
amy

SparkleKitty 11-12-2014 11:00 AM

Ooh nothing like a good red dress to get you in the holiday spirit! And nothing like a good figure-hugging red dress to make you feel like a movie star!

MissFixit 11-12-2014 11:09 AM

So, I want to hear about the whole look. How are you doing your hair? Shoes?

Florence 11-12-2014 11:20 AM

Hubba hubba!

:You_Rock_

SabrinaQ 11-12-2014 11:25 AM

That sounds exciting!

BRAVO!!!:a122:

Kboys 11-12-2014 11:34 AM

That makes me smile :) Good for you!

LeeJane 11-12-2014 11:36 AM

What a lovely post. Good on you. :a122:

FireSprite 11-12-2014 12:00 PM


Originally Posted by Brindie (Post 5012119)
So ladies, in my 60th year I have bought a beautiful deep ruby, figure hugging, ruched (fake) silk, just above the knee, sleeveless party dress! It fits like a dream, and with my renewed confidence, I am really looking forward to a party for the first time in nearly 20 years. That's recovery!

:scoregood:You_Rock_:a122:

Your dress sounds AMAZING!!!!!! What a great, positive post. Thanks for sharing!!

Rosiepetal 11-12-2014 03:18 PM

***** go for it you gorgeous lady :)

LexieCat 11-12-2014 03:49 PM

Yay!!

Oh, it's so wonderful to put on a new outfit that makes you feel SMASHING.

I predict a fabulous new year for you!

Brindie 11-13-2014 09:33 AM

Well, thank you all! I am wowed! :You_Rock_

hopeful4 11-13-2014 09:41 AM

You are amazing. There is nothing like a nice dress that you feel good in to make a person feel like a million bucks! Have a wonderful time at your party!!!!

XXX

FireSprite 11-13-2014 10:18 AM

You know Brindie, when *I* am 60 I want to be secure enough with myself to wear a figure-hugging dress. Any color. Any holiday.

You are ROCKING your confidence which is the sexiest-ever accessory any woman can wear, every day for every event in her life. (IMO)

You have inspired me SO MUCH with this seemingly *little* post. :tyou

FireSprite 11-13-2014 10:19 AM

You know Brindie, when *I* am 60 I want to be secure enough with myself to wear a figure-hugging dress. Any color. Any holiday.

You are ROCKING your confidence which is the sexiest-ever accessory any woman can wear, every day for every event in her life. (IMO)

You have inspired me SO MUCH with this seemingly *little* post. :tyou

Brindie 11-13-2014 10:46 AM

You have been pretty inspiring to me, so thank you gracious lady x

irisgardens 11-13-2014 01:03 PM

Awesome Bridie...what a great piece of hope as you shared...that red dress sounds fabulous and you sound fabulous too!

lillamy 11-13-2014 01:27 PM

You go, girl!!! :) That's SO encouraging!!!

Stung 11-13-2014 03:47 PM

I hope you have such a fabulous and fun night filled with laughter!! :)

NYCDoglvr 11-13-2014 06:44 PM

Kick up your heels, gal. And thanks for posting, you lifted my spirits by showing with time and work life does get better.


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