Driving Drunk and 2 AA Meetings
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Driving Drunk and 2 AA Meetings
My BF decided to do a quick run to Pets Mart when he was smashed and hit a small guard rail near his home on the return from the store. No one saw it and no police were around. I was at my own place when he called me after it happened. His ex wife was at his house waiting when he got back and was dropping off their 9 year old to spend the night. She took pictures of the damaged car and threatened calling the cops if he didn't get help. I backed her up. He finally agreed that he was scared enough to get back with his substance abuse counselor and attended his first 2 AA meetings. Now, he says he hates the meetings and got in an argument with his counselor that he doesn't need AA. I think he just manipulated his ex wife and me to get out of immediate trouble and will try staying sober on his own but relapse is inevitable. Thoughts? Thanks you guys.
scout360....finding fault with AA is a huge red flag, for sure.
It sounds like it is time for you to spend some time thinking about what you are willing to live with and tolerate in a relationship.
LOL!....I think hammer is right...I am willing to bet that you and the ex have a lot in common.
At least, you don't have your own child in the m ix. That makes the situation much, much worse.
dandylion
It sounds like it is time for you to spend some time thinking about what you are willing to live with and tolerate in a relationship.
LOL!....I think hammer is right...I am willing to bet that you and the ex have a lot in common.
At least, you don't have your own child in the m ix. That makes the situation much, much worse.
dandylion
If he does not want to get sober then relapse is inevitable whether he attends AA or not. Also, research shows that if he REALLY wants to get sober his chances are about the same whether he attends AA or not. So there you have it. If he does not want to get sober, he will not.
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