SoloMio

….sucks

I'm feeling very sad tonight. And it was triggered by a totally random thing. My DD dated a guy who was clearly not for DD, but was awesome in many ways. So when she broke up with him, I said to him kind of jokingly, "Don't you dare defriend me on Facebook!" which is strange--that our ties with other people are now virtual.

I realized I hadn't seen him post in a while so I checked my "Friend" list and he had deactivated his account. "Deactivated his account" = lost to me. Honestly, I felt such sadness at that…

But..

In addition, AH is now in his car in the driveway, drunk as a lord, when we should be at our favorite Japanese restaurant, and I'm just feeling like this is all so sad. I don't see any great outcome for this as hard as I try to hang on… to whatever hope I can…

Sikofit

Sorry for your feelings of loss.

I get it.

chicory

I'm so sorry , SoloMio.

SeriousKarma

I totally get it as well SoloMio. That feeling that human connections are like sand running through your fingers.

When I feel like that I try to keep myself moving forward. Like moving through a tunnel, I know I'll eventually get out of it. I hope you feel better, and find resolution soon.
((((( hugs ))))))

lillamy

I'm sorry.

BrokenInPieces

I totally understand that feeling. When my axbf ended our relationship in early June, I "unfriended" two of his friends and his aunt. I had reason to. I hadn't unfriended his sister-in-law, though. We had no real contact through FB other than her "friending" me a couple years ago and one or the other of us "liking" the occasional post, but I always liked her, so didn't see reason to unfriend her.

Last week, she unfriended me. I'll be honest - it stung.