NYCDoglvr

Instead of constantly being at the effect of his moods and the degree of alcohol he has consumed, perhaps you should take stock and ask yourself a few questions. Do you trust and respect him? Do you even like him? Do you secretly believe he'll change (trust me, he won't)? One of the hardest things for me was to stop focusing on the alcoholic and look at my own thinking, which got me to where I am today. I hope you read stickey's and consider Alanon, a recovery program for people stuck in relationships with alcoholics. Saved my sanity!