Lesson of the Evening
Lesson of the Evening
Actually, there were several of them:
1) I can control my rage. I can walk/drive away. I can then come back and keep it cool. I can calmly tell him how I feel. I can stay unaffected by his answer "do what you wanna do."
2) I can do what I wanna do. I can chop my fears into pieces. I know there are people who truly care about me (my family), no matter what.
3) It is easier to act if you have a plan/scenario in your head. I told myself that next time a potentially dangerous situation occurs, I'll be out, at the speed of light. No discussions with him. Just out. I did that this evening. A part of me felt lost, but at the same time, I was feeling powerful. I was in control of my adrenalin rush.
4) It is funny how our honeymoon lasts now only a day or two.
1) I can control my rage. I can walk/drive away. I can then come back and keep it cool. I can calmly tell him how I feel. I can stay unaffected by his answer "do what you wanna do."
2) I can do what I wanna do. I can chop my fears into pieces. I know there are people who truly care about me (my family), no matter what.
3) It is easier to act if you have a plan/scenario in your head. I told myself that next time a potentially dangerous situation occurs, I'll be out, at the speed of light. No discussions with him. Just out. I did that this evening. A part of me felt lost, but at the same time, I was feeling powerful. I was in control of my adrenalin rush.
4) It is funny how our honeymoon lasts now only a day or two.
I think that for the first time tonight, I saw him as a seriously sick man. Not an a-hole as usual, but a really really sick person who cannot control himself. It is sad, but not my responsibility. Not my problem. I must not fail again and be drawn into another argument. Well not tonight anyway, he is wasted. The night should be peaceful.
It is funny how our honeymoon lasts now only a day or two.
Like you say -- you can do what you want. When you want it.
Currently Active Users Viewing this Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)