Leaving home for the night...
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Leaving home for the night...
Well my Ah really showed himself tonight. I felt him yelling curse words at me , telling me I ruined his life (cuz I made him drink and act like that), lost his keys to his work truck(which he hid but somehow it will be my fault if he gets fired), breaking our things was enough. I took my 3 boys to a hotel. I did not fight w/an unreasonable person. I acted completely different than I have in the past!i know I'll have to go back but for the night I'm ok!
Hugs Hbk. I've been there. Enjoy the peace and get some sleep if you can.
My ex would black out hide things all the time, then accuse us of stealing it when he couldn't find it.
Take care of yourself and keep posting.
My ex would black out hide things all the time, then accuse us of stealing it when he couldn't find it.
Take care of yourself and keep posting.
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We went back to grab some clothes. Going to stay with my gma for a couple of days at least. I didn't fight and usesd "no" as a complete sentence. Even with all the "I'm sorry I'm done drinking" harping in my ear.
I notice your first two postings are from 2011 when he was leaving rehab and lapsed right away.
He doesn't seem to have changed, but you have
Glad you are taking your power back in this situation and getting out of it.
Expect the nasty to nice range of emotional manipulations when he gets you are really out this time.
Good luck and keep posting.
He doesn't seem to have changed, but you have
Glad you are taking your power back in this situation and getting out of it.
Expect the nasty to nice range of emotional manipulations when he gets you are really out this time.
Good luck and keep posting.
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Ya I've been dealing with this for a while. Things mellowed out for about a yr then I have recently been reliving my codependent nightmare! I'm working hard on my issues one of those being not accepting misplaced guilt!
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