choublak

No, but I'm currently living with a friend of the family while I get on my feet, but I'm taking too long to do so, in her eyes.

fbw

The bottem line is - her opinion is hers. The most you can do is walk away or ignor her. You are not going to change her. You are not going to successfully defend yourself and have her say " Oh I am sorry I did not realise I was acting this way I will do my best to adjust my behavior " You can tell her how you feel. She can choose to listen or not - then you can get on with your vacation.

NWGRITS

"I can get a job, but you'll always been an obnoxious a-hole." That might shut her up for a bit.

I kid, I kid. But I bet it made you smile.

choublak

Well, now whenever I bring anything related to our conflict up, she says to me, "I'm not going to talk about this with you now, because you'll get upset."