my ah say's if I continue reading co/dependent books & alonon we will end up divorced
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my ah say's if I continue reading co/dependent books & alonon we will end up divorced
I have been going to alonon for months now and have been here for months but just started reading Co-dependent no more, and other co dependent books, But most of all I have started putting my alonon learnings in place. Learning to detatch, and be happy with the life I have been given. It just so happens to not include a drunk thats all.
He can not stand the thought that I do not worry everytime he walks out the door, I do not look for beer, I do not count, I do not search, and I do not make myself sick over his desisions. I have literly made myself sick sorring and trying to make him stop drinking. I have learned no matter what I do he will not stop untill he is ready, I have made an apt. for family counseling for me and my children I am chosing to live and let him be who he wants to be.
He said to me if you continue reading those books and going to alonon we will be divorced. Alonon is suppose to teach you to live with an alcoholic. Then he had the nerve to say " if you allowed me to drink one or two in the living room in my chair I wouldn't feel the need to go down and guzzle so many" I laughed and said NO
you would have the one or two up stairs and still guzzle down stairs But I have always loved that saying. ANYWAY just wanted to let you all know I feel so good.
He can not stand the thought that I do not worry everytime he walks out the door, I do not look for beer, I do not count, I do not search, and I do not make myself sick over his desisions. I have literly made myself sick sorring and trying to make him stop drinking. I have learned no matter what I do he will not stop untill he is ready, I have made an apt. for family counseling for me and my children I am chosing to live and let him be who he wants to be.
He said to me if you continue reading those books and going to alonon we will be divorced. Alonon is suppose to teach you to live with an alcoholic. Then he had the nerve to say " if you allowed me to drink one or two in the living room in my chair I wouldn't feel the need to go down and guzzle so many" I laughed and said NO
you would have the one or two up stairs and still guzzle down stairs But I have always loved that saying. ANYWAY just wanted to let you all know I feel so good.
GOOD FOR YOU DAZI !!!!!! sounds to me like someone is feeling a little left behind. 
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