hopeful4

Good for you! I just got off the train myself, so happy with my choice. While I have children with him and that certainly complicates things, I know I have done the right thing.

Yes, prepare yourself for the emoational mess that comes along with this. I have experienced how much he cannot stand me, that I am crazy (ha), that I am the best thing ever and his heart is bleeding b/c I left him, all sorts of crazy. I just keep my focus on my kids and I don't let it affect me. He is still on the crazy train, I am not.

I hope you get the townhouse you like and that you move forward and experience the freedom of not being with an alcoholic!