hopeful4

Well, I told him yesterday I had the papers. I wimped out and emailed them to him this morning. I did this because it was late in the day when I got them, he would be getting off soon and picking up our daughter from school. I did not want him to read them and freak out and either drink and/or act strangely around my kids. So, I just sent them this morning. He knows they are coming. He is also drafting a letter of what he wants to take out of the house, which I think won't cause any problems, we have already discussed this.

So...another day of anxiety until he agrees on it all, but it's worth it to keep my babies safe and protected from his mood swings that may happen when he addresses all of this.

So....another prayer today would be good. Thank you friends for all of your support and prayers!

XXX

tjol81

What you call wiping out, I'd call a rational and informed choice!! Don't sweat it!

Hope it all goes well though. We're all rooting for you x

hopeful4

It's just sad that I have to analyze every single decision this way, but it is what it is. Until my children are both of driving age and have vehicles to drive themselves away at their own choice, it will be this way. I have to let that part go because I cannot change it.

I sent him a text that I emailed it to him, he is being very short about it. We shall see.

hopeful4

I guess nothing today. He just emailed me and asked me to pick up my little from school as he is having a hard time with this paperwork and is taking off at noon. I think he is having an emoational meltdown and will prob go get drunk. I dunno. This is why I did not give them to him yesterday.

I guess time will tell. Yuck.

catlovermi

At least he's not ranting. Stay the course.

Sending support!

CLMI

Wisconsin

Sending ((HUGS)), prayers, support, and good wishes for peace and serenity!

hopeful4

Well good news! We have been texting this afternoon, I am making a disclosure as to what is in the house that belongs to him still and he is going to sign! I am soooo excited!

Thanks for all of your support, encouragement, hugs, and just letting me ramble. You guys are super great!

Of course, until I actually have them in hand I won't believe it, but he has agreed and I don't think will even want to talk about it anymore!

O happy day!

unsureoffuture

Yah!! Great news for you. Another hurdle over with and some closure so you can move on!

Stung

I'm happy for you, Hopeful!! Woohoo!!

Wisconsin

Hopeful, the legal gods have been good to us this week! Crossing my fingers that the paperwork comes through signed, sealed and delivered ASAP.

PippiLngstockng

Good luck! Prayers and fingers crossed!!!

LoveMeNow

Great news Hopeful4. I am so happy for you.

hopeful4

Thanks Everyone! I hesitate to happy dance too soon, but I would say I am 99.9% certain he won't back out now. Hip Hip Horray!

Pia

Come on papers!!!!!!!
make sure every T is crossed and I is dotted..........

Rosiepetal

Wow, in my country you have to wait 2 years before applying for divorce.
I hope he signs & that you can move on.

lizatola

That's good news! I've heard so many stories from friends who had serious issues with ending their divorces from their A's just dragging their feet, etc. or taking them back to court over stupid stuff. Praying that the whole process goes smoothly and that things get worked out amicably for you both! HUGS!

hopeful4

He did agree to the drinking restrictions. His one stipulation is that they apply to me also LOL. No problem there, I don't even drink, so I thought that was funny. I don't really know that he understands what can happen, but he definitely agreed. It is tight wording too, I had my attorney seal that right up.

I just cannot wait!

FireSprite

HILARIOUS! Talk about the ultimate denial.

I can't believe how fast this is happening, good luck!

Hammer

Dear God,

Please show hopeful4 Your Path, Your Will, and Your Way for her and give her the Wisdom, Courage, and Strength to follow it.

Amen.

tjol81

Thrilled that he seems to be playing ball! Great news Hopeful! You're so generous with your time and support on here, it's great to see that life is being a bit more generous to you! All the best xxx