The gesture of kindness...

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Old 04-17-2014, 10:36 AM
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He has no concept of "manners"...you know, once you take of the rose colored glasses and stop thinking "what if", you really will be in a better place.

You deserve respect and love, not upset, turmoil and a knot in your stomach...Once you can get past the worrying and wondering, you can be receptive and open to a healthy relationship...

Sometimes we keeping needing to do, do, do for others, when we really should be doing for ourselves.

take that "gift basket" $$$ (what grown man needs an Easter basket, the only thing he is interested in is if a bottle was hiding there) and spend it on YOURSELF. how about a facial? a professional massage and pedicure?
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Old 04-17-2014, 10:43 AM
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It's a lovely thought, I just worry that breaking the no contact would send the wrong message and be trouble down the road.

Myself, I always overtip when eating out..that's my thing.

(((hugs)))
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Old 04-17-2014, 10:51 AM
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Fandy & Live,

Xoxo thanks guys! You're right.
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Old 04-17-2014, 11:45 AM
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Fandy,

How did you know I had a knot in my stomach? You're right friend.
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