He showed up in my bathtub!
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Originally Posted by MissFixit 
There are so many scenarios we never think will happen to us until they do, and this event needs to be recorded to show a pattern of unstable behavior if anything else occurs.
My hunch is that he won't try the bathtub stunt again. He'll probably turn up somewhere else you don't expect. So, yes, go ahead and change the locks, but you can save some money on all of those new electrical appliances you were planning on buying. Best thing you can do is find him a girlfriend. Fast.
My prayers for you and your family.
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All I can say is wow! You did a great job standing your ground and enforcing your boundaries. It really is such a baffling disease. I am with ya on the hating men part 
. I feel the same, no way no how.
. I feel the same, no way no how.
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Holy boundaries Batman! Like a giant duck just floating in the tub. Quack quack quack. Change those locks asap and get a stun gun or possibly a chainsaw for home protection. 'Cause this guy is just not getting it.
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The first Christmas my XAH and I were separated, he came over Xmas eve and spent the night on the sofa, so he could be here to wake up with the kids. Early Christmas morning, he slipped into my bedroom, and into bed with me while I was sleeping. I woke up to Mr. Happy and hands groping me (which lasted all of .3 seconds of course).
It amazed me how a man who once turned me on could gross me out so much in the end. Good on you for getting on with your life without the drunk. And as others have said, changing those locks will give you some peace of mind.
It amazed me how a man who once turned me on could gross me out so much in the end. Good on you for getting on with your life without the drunk. And as others have said, changing those locks will give you some peace of mind.
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I know it's not funny but the way you titled your thread.....still has me cracking up. Now the visual of a man's head with body of a duck in the tub , just quacking away has me 
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I hope you are doing well. Keeping you in my prayers.
.I hope you are doing well. Keeping you in my prayers.
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