Wisconsin

Tomorrow is my court hearing to terminate my alimony payments to my ex-husband. There are many possible outcomes (as is true in pretty much every court hearing). I know that eventually, things will go my way because our settlement agreement states very clearly that alimony terminates after 5 years, and 5 years is up. But my ex-husband has a history of trying to drag things out as long as possible, so my biggest fear is that he will request some sort of continuance tomorrow (which would automatically mean I continue to pay alimony. The payments continue until the judge issues an order terminating them).

The best possible outcome for me would be the judge issuing a ruling tomorrow terminating the alimony payments and entering a new support order the same day. It would then still take 3-6 weeks for the state and my employer to process everything and adjust the amounts that are withheld from my paycheck.

I don't have to explain to you all how important this is with respect to my ability to leave my AH. Ending those alimony payments will get me a lot closer to being able to support myself and my children.

Prayers and positive thoughts are much appreciated!

Hawkeye13

Good luck with your hearing Wisconsin;

I truly hope it goes you way and am sending you positive energy

hopeful4

Wishing you the best of luck and a judge that is on top of things!

FireSprite

Good luck, crossing fingers & toes & sending ++++mojo++++ !!!!!

Stung

That is a big day! Sending lots and lots of good luck your way!

JustAGirl1971

Good luck, Wisconsin!!

MsPINKAcres

sending you lots of pinkness my friend!!!!!!!

theuncertainty

Best of luck, Wisconsin. (((hugs)))

Rosiepetal

Good luck.
Sending positive vibes.

Raider

Good luck. Praying for you

Hawkeye13

How did things work out Wisconsin?

OnlyOneProblem

Good Luck. Hope things go your way. I know you've been waiting for this day for while.

CarryOn

Good luck, pulling for you!!

BoxinRotz

Hope your day went well!

Godismyrock

Good luck!!!!!

Impurrfect

Sending lots of prayers your way, Wisconsin, that the judge rules in your favor tomorrow.

Hugs and prayers,

Amy

Seren

Wisconsin, I know this has been a struggle and am sending many good thoughts and prayers your way today!!

Wisconsin

Thanks so much everyone. I arrived at court early and am just trying to meditate and pray, and stay calm. I will post as soon as we're done. Your prayers and good thoughts are lifting me up right now.

hopeful4

Three slow breaths in....one breath out. You can do this Wisconsin! Best of luck my friend!

Trailsky

Good luck!