my ex fiancé mood swings - I was in control with myself
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my ex fiancé mood swings - I was in control with myself
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So some of u may know my ex fiancé is recently sober for 4 months. He has drastic mood swings! One week he wants to work things out and the next he doesn't. We still see each other every day due to our son. I had recently told him that I am finally Walking away from him and I'm in the process of getting my stuff out.
So today when picking up my son. He is really nice to me. Starts talking to me how his day is going and his plans with my son for tomorrow. Keep in mind i could never get him to talk to me. Don't get me wrong it was nice seeing him having a good day but today was different for me.
Today I felt like I didn't need him or want his attention. He even tried to lay next to me on the sofa while I waited for my son to finish eating. Usually I would give in and hug or kiss him. But today I didn't. I got up and cleaned up my son and left. It felt good to be in control of myself.
So some of u may know my ex fiancé is recently sober for 4 months. He has drastic mood swings! One week he wants to work things out and the next he doesn't. We still see each other every day due to our son. I had recently told him that I am finally Walking away from him and I'm in the process of getting my stuff out.
So today when picking up my son. He is really nice to me. Starts talking to me how his day is going and his plans with my son for tomorrow. Keep in mind i could never get him to talk to me. Don't get me wrong it was nice seeing him having a good day but today was different for me.
Today I felt like I didn't need him or want his attention. He even tried to lay next to me on the sofa while I waited for my son to finish eating. Usually I would give in and hug or kiss him. But today I didn't. I got up and cleaned up my son and left. It felt good to be in control of myself.
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So now my ex just told me he injured himself at his basketball game. I guess he thought I would take care of him like I normally would do. But I can't anymore. Just last week he told me so many hurtful things and I just felt like his punching bag. I couldn't take it anymore. I'm still in love with him but he needs to start taking care of himself.
You did the right thing Christina. One minute he wants you and the next he doesn't. You don't deserve that emotional roller coaster. All relationships have their ups and downs but it's not a healthy one if it changes weekly. Stay away but show respect for one another for the sake of your son.
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