I had the talk with abf
 

Surprisingly, there was no resistance from him. I told him the relationship isn't working and he agreed. He's going to be moved out by the end of the month. I tried to explain my codependency and he didn't want to hear about it. He's depressed and finally admitted it. It's a load off my back but I won't be relieved until he's gone. I feel awful for his situation, but he's had several chances to turn his life around. This is the only way for him to succeed, because he's got it too easy here. I'm just ready to get on with my life. I'm tired.

Good for you! Takes a lot of courage and strength to do what u did.