My conclusion
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My conclusion
So I accidentally started two threads yesterday titled "Am I wrong?" Thank you all for your input. I was able to take something away from each one and come to a conclusion. My question was, is/was rabf obligated to be forthcoming about a woman who was a sore spot (due to him texting her 1 1/2 years ago to get together), being at a party he would be attending. If he is doing him and I am doing me, then the answer is no...BUT...if trust and honesty are a problem in the relationship, and are a boundry for ME, then the relationship has a problem. It is my responsibility to work on letting go of the past, and dealing with my fears, that is my side of the street. But if past is present and I am not happy and turning into a crazy person because of it, then taking care of me (letting go of a broken relationship) is my responsibility and quit expecting someone else to change to make me happy!it takes two to make a relationship work! Thank you everyone for your help!
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