thislonelygirl

Vent!
Christmas eve went pretty well got little ones to sleep after laying out cookies for santa and fighting dd 3y to sleep. Finally I could get to bed after doing gifts.. ah got drunk go figure . Threw a fit because I wouldnt stay up with him. Screamed yelled and called me names. Woke dd up. Tried to get dd back to bed and ah then tells dd santa isnt real!!!!!!!!
Finally passes out drunk and I am laying in bed with dd tired and havent slept!
I am beyond angry! Fed up! I am pregnant tired its Christmas dd wont go back to bed and I have done everything to kerp santa real and Christmas special. Ah is a selfish mean sob!

Mags1

Hi thislonelygirl, men! Can be so selfish! Sometimes. I'm sending lots of hugs and best wishes for some peace this Christmas. x

ChrissieB

So sorry that you and your daughter had to experience that, you are a great Mom! I know this is so heartbreaking... Stay strong xx

Seren

Sending hugs to you and your children!!

HopefulinFLA

I hope Santa puts a lump of coal and I mean hangover in his stocking! Jerk.

m1k3

Wishing you and your daughter a safe and happy Christmas. ((((Hugs))))

BTW, all men aren't jerks but most drunks are,

Your friend,

Hawkeye13

Yep, I'm with Hopeful and hope he wakes up with the hangover
he so richly deserves.

You said you had a place to go after Christmas in your last thread.
Is that still the plan?
It does seem like things are getting worse and closer together.

djayr

Hi there-

I am praying for you this morning, that you will find your strength in God.

Blessings...

thislonelygirl

Thanks. Christmas morning went well up until just now I asked ah if hed watch kids for a little so I could take a power nap on the couch. Well he threw a fit...making me out to be this horrible parent with "really? Are you serious? Your going to go to sleep on Christmas! !!!"
I want to smack him so bad. Yes I am serious! I have a headache tired feel nauseas and he kept me up last night abd woke dd up!!!! And made the santa comment and said the bs he did and me taking a quick nap ruins christmas? ????????!!!!!! Youve got to be kidding me. Nope not taking a nap anymore because ah has to go to the "store" real quick. Yay ...more alcohol!
I Am glad my kids had and are having a good Christmas despite everything but I am depressed. I am so tired of alcoholics ...the words like recovery addiction sobreity bla bla bla. I just want some respect and admiration. I want a man to treat me like a queen. Oh guess what I got from ah for christmas too?
Exactly what I told yall. Yelling etc. Nothing else. Not an I love you. Not flowers. Candy. Nothing!!!

Yes my plans are still going through.
I am so sad and disappointed today!

BoxinRotz

Lonely, How old are the kids? I know when mine were young (5&3) I'd lay on the couch and just doze on and off while they played beside me. It was never a restful powernap but it helped if I wasn't feeling well. Can you lock your doors while he's away and have the kids play beside you while you rest?

You are not a bad mother for being tired and sick. For God's sake, you are pregnant! Who in the hell does he think he is?

Robh850

So sorry to read about your night. No need for that, hope you are getting some rest this evening.

Thankfully my dd watched Despicable Me 2 about 10 times today so I could power nap.

thislonelygirl

3 and 7 and I got my power nap. Thankfully too since I started experiencing ligament pains. Dd went to bed already and ah started knocking back a few to where he was talking and acting inappropriate. Ds told him he was going to tell on him and he shouldnt be mean to his mommy. My sweet boy
Ah then left. So just me and ds right now playing then off to bed.
Thanks everyone. I just cannot wait for a full good nights sleep and yes movies and door lock and ds helping with dd is usually how I have power napped but since ah was home and at that point sober thought it would be nice he help.guess I was wrong

Rosiepetal

Hi this lonelygirl.
There is man out there who will treat you with respect.
You must ask yourself how long are you prepared to be treated like this.
It is also affecting your children & you are bringing a new baby into this chaos.
I pray & hope you will do what is best for you & your children.
Also would you leave your new baby in this mans hands? I wouldn't.
Hugs as always.

thislonelygirl

Thanks rosie.

I am just so glad my lo's are such good kids considering..ds was like "mommy ill never treat a girl like that" and "alcohol is bad!"
I wish I could go sooner but theres absolutely no room for us till after the weekend.

Booo

I pray you get out fast. There is no excuse for this, horrible. Hugs to you.

Carol Star

Ditto- also pray you get out fast.....I was one of the little kids whose Mom didn't get out........ not real great Christmas memories....... they will be affected . He will not change; selfish, abusive, and disease is progressive.......