bird13

Dare I say my feelings are actually changing and I am not anxiety ridden about it.... Mostly sad. And quiet. I read through old emails right before I read this thread and realized it has gotten quieter bc I have understood and quit caring about a fix. There isn't one.

Booo

Resolute 50 nailed it for ME. MY AH has issues but god, he is anything but a jerk, I swear to you, he does not do everything right, but he damn well tries. What he can't do financially he does emotionally, and he takes care of so so many things.

We all put up with so so much, so to have some one not just "checked out" on you, but to be blatantly awful to you is too much to take. I am sorry and becaue we Codie's can be often to weak (or controlling) to let go, it's almost a blessing when the A takes the reins and runs free and far far awy. I feel your pain and anger and the works, and you don't deserve this sort of treatment...not from him, not from anyone.