bonbon

Hey yall, Just wanted to give an update on me, it has been a long hectic week here at work. And a long hectic week with my A too. One thing I will take with me today is the thought about not setting expectations to high. I am finding or seeing myself build up with anger each time I put an expectation out and it doesn't get fullfilled. This is something I am learning to do. Keep the expectations low, and worry about myself and my daughter only.

I hope this weekend is good for all of you Mothers out there, I want mine to be peaceful and relaxing.

Take care all,
many hugs..
Love,
bonbon

Ann

Hope your's is a great weekend too, Bonbon.

Good Luck

Hugs

Ann

JT

bonbon,

It is funny how we shoot ourselves in the foot...and all along we think it is THEM..

When we expect something from some one who has so little to give we set ourselves up to be hurt..

When we react to something they have done and they react back we are so hurt..

When we fail to detach and we try to take over there life for them, we are hurt when they don't do what we want...

Now I ask you...who is hurting who?

And thanks so much for the Mother's Day wish!

Love
JT

[This message has been edited by Just Tired (edited May 10, 2002).]

Morning Glory

I just wish I could spend 5 minutes giving my son a great big hug and then just send him back on his way. I really miss that.

Bonbon, cherish the moments with your daughter. Those moments will never come again. I just wish I hadn't wasted so much of my life focusing on the things I could not change and waiting for things that may not ever happen. We have so much in life to appreciate now. We only have now. You are doing the right thing. I hope you have a wonderful mother's day.

MG