Update: I Am Third
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Originally Posted by firebolt 
I AM SO HAPPY TO HEAR! Don't think twice about your AH....always remember that they have to drink to deal with the good, bad, and in between in life, they will rarely be good support for themselves, let alone someone else! ((((HUGS))) and CHEERS - to your health!
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I am in tears right now!!!! SOOOOO happy that you had good news!! I hope you felt the love and prayers that were with you today.
You have fought the fight, you have been so courageous through this whole thing. Now....deep breath...and exhale!!! You are inspiring to all of us! Your journey has been more difficult because of the A in your life, but you pushed through the fear and triumphed. I am SO happy right now I"m doing a happy dance!
There is NOTHING you can not accomplish Iamthird!
You have fought the fight, you have been so courageous through this whole thing. Now....deep breath...and exhale!!! You are inspiring to all of us! Your journey has been more difficult because of the A in your life, but you pushed through the fear and triumphed. I am SO happy right now I"m doing a happy dance!
There is NOTHING you can not accomplish Iamthird!
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I am so blessed. I could never fully distance myself from separated AH because of my illness. I needed his financial and physical help. Now that I have been given the gift of healing, I need to honor my higher power and make the best of this life for my children and I.
Not a day goes by that I dont miss or love my separated AH. Fact remains, he is an active alcoholic and not taking any steps to change that. I need to put some distance now.
Thank you everyone for your love and support. I wouldnt have made it through this past year without SR. Some days I couldnt even move and all I could manage was the energy to look at SR on my phone.
My life is new. I will not take it for granted.
Not a day goes by that I dont miss or love my separated AH. Fact remains, he is an active alcoholic and not taking any steps to change that. I need to put some distance now.
Thank you everyone for your love and support. I wouldnt have made it through this past year without SR. Some days I couldnt even move and all I could manage was the energy to look at SR on my phone.
My life is new. I will not take it for granted.
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Your husband has the disease of alcoholism and it's common for active drunks to renege on promises. I pray for you, that you continue to recover from cancer and not count on anything an alcoholic says. The pain is enormous, I know. God bless...
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