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Old 10-04-2013, 06:22 AM
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TINY glimmer of hope

Last night was xAH's first night with the girls under the new orders. He wanted it to be an overnight, the judge said nope- only til 8 pm.

He texted me in the morning to say come back at 7 pm. I wasn't about to argue.

Then at 6:15 he texted to say "come back whenever you want. ill b in car"

Yes I took screen shots AND asked him via text if he was sure he didn't want to stay longer.

So, night #1 with the girls himself and he spent 1 hr and 15 min.

He was in the car in the street when I returned. Girls were inside alone.

I went in and D8 was sobbing. He apparently had been screaming at her non stop for most of the time he was there.

That is not good news but his obvious disinterest in being with the girls despite his claims otherwise IS good for them and me.
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Old 10-04-2013, 06:58 AM
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No, it's not good news for the kids, but at least he had the sense(?) to remove himself from the source of his stress (the girls).

And you documented it. Nice work. And you came right home, showing that 1) the kids are your priority and 2) you are committed to their well-being.
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Old 10-04-2013, 08:25 AM
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He was in the car in the street when I returned. Girls were inside alone.
Jesus Christ.

Good on your for documenting it. You might also pop your lawyer an email with the screenshots.
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Already did.

Today I got a gem of an email.

The court order says he has the girls each Sat night at 6 pm to Sunday at 6 pm.

He today emails me and proposes that we leave the order as written (like he alone can change it???) but agree that we will swap weekends and play it by ear week by week.

Translation: I don't want to be tied down to a schedule in case something better comes up and I want to keep you from making plans so how about we leave my guaranteed visitation but agree that when I want to change it at my whim, you will agree to it.

Idiot.

Also fwd'd that to my lawyer and will not reply to him.
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EXCELLENT on your part.
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