TakingCharge999

Ohh I also have two cats

How are you today teresa?

Thanks all for your support and helpful posts. I am feeling better today.

Unfortunately I had not blocked this "man" from one discussion forum we belong to and yesterday I saw a message from him saying "he dislikes crazy people who visit a therapist bi weekly and take psychotropic drugs".

I admit it made me angry - why would he "care" so much about me going to therapy? who cares really? no one normal behaves this way, right...?

I took a deep breath and felt sorry for him / what a loss of time / I would like to answer "if there is anyone crazy it would be someone who spends more than 20 seconds listening to your BS" but refrained. I blocked him from that forum.

And hopefully that's the last thing I "hear" from him.

I had never met someone so judgmental/arrogant in my life. Maybe it was a sign from God to remind me I am not missing much, in fact today I feel grateful I am not with someone so toxic next to me anymore. Trying to let things be, he is entitled to his opinion / and I am entitled to be around uplifting people.

LaTeeDa

And there you have it. The less time you spend engaging with toxic people, the more time you have to notice the uplifting people who cross your path.

L

TakingCharge999

Thanks LTD!

Yes, how ridiculous to try to control someone. Indeed at least he has helped me to give more value to all the great people I have been lucky to meet, in SR and in real life!

I feel he thought I was lonely and desperate, but he did not count on my spiritual family. Unfortunately when women are away from home they are more vulnerable // well, no more unnecessary drama for me / I feel I already "paid my dues" and deserve peace now --

A sketching/drawing/painting/blogging weekend ahead

teresasue

Hello, takingcharge; I am slowly and i mean slowly getting out of my shell.
I am a beautiful person and everyone here is too. I make baby steps forward; have a bad thought that takes right back again. i feel out of sorts, but i am willing to forge ahead. I believe in a HP and pray for self confidence that i will get myself back. I need this SR site desperately, so i can see things clearly. I love my ABF, but it trully is so hard to understand the lieing. It is almost that drinking is easier to handle than the lieing.
Does that make sense? Even lieing about not drinking when i can tell on the phone.
I have taken the day off, just to chill and unwind ; up at a lake about an hour away ....
wish all peace and serenity today, cause i need that too....