wiscsober

I always advocate keep money out of relations with AA/Alanon members.

Boundaries are set for myself not him.

I think this may be too specific of a post, but I don't have a place to vent right now.

I've messed up since last summer still today.

Live in an area where parking for boats is a premium.

Berthing can run up to $3,000 a season.

Last year parked a boat in my carport without asking. Asked him to remove it which he did. He asked again and I let him for free "aargh."

totally passive since last year I let him use a storage locker and park the boat not for free but just haven't addressed the issue.

I've locked his boat and the storage locker because he didn't and wouldn't return my calls.

I'm ready to call him and say if he doesn't want to talk about this I will charge him $100 for storage and $200 for the boat.

I blame myself for people pleasing. He has helped me tremendously with financing some of my trips. Helped me with some money. Monetarily I am indebted to him by $300 also.

Pretty much he has sponsored me in AA and I have sponsored him in Alanon.

His refusal to answer txts, msgs. and emails has me mad.

I need to walk my talk and I haven't done that.

It irks me I have answers for everyone else but me! PRIDE and EGO

Hammer

Yeah. You will figure this out.

Remember the lessons in life we do not learn . . . we repeat.

Now study up and stop flunking.