wife1020

I found bottles everywhere. So did my kids. Heartbreaking. But the confrontation, anger and dumping them made it seem like it was MY problem. He would think I had the problem with the drinking because I would get so upset. DETACHMENT is needed. And sounds like you need to make a plan to leave. He obviously isnt going to stop.
My RAH is out of the house now and I feel secure and happy knowing what I am going home to and not worried about what I will find every day. I am not stressing myself out playing detective. good luck!