Why can't I let go?
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Originally Posted by Tuffgirl 
You can't let go because you don't want to yet. When you want to, you will; you'll know it when it happens, and it will be sad but not traumatic.
It's ok - detaching from an enmeshed co-dependent relationship takes time. Be easy on yourself. One step at a time.
It's ok - detaching from an enmeshed co-dependent relationship takes time. Be easy on yourself. One step at a time.
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Thank you for posting this and for being so honest about your feelings Brightstat. I also at times feel like this and thought that I was going crazy. The one moment I hate him and wish he was gone. But when he leaves I miss him terribly. I get so upset and frustrated with myself because it does not make sense how I can feel this way about another person. I am also having a hard time letting go. I am so sorry you are going through this and I just wanted you to know that I can relate to you.
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Thanks for all the support to everyone. Tuffgirl special thanks at least I don't feel like such a twisted freak about the whole mess after reading your post. It is so hard to get out if this
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Originally Posted by brightstar43
Thanks for all the support to everyone. Tuffgirl special thanks at least I don't feel like such a twisted freak about the whole mess after reading your post. It is so hard to get out if this
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